Paul and Cherri Korean Adoption: Names

Monday, June 2, 2008

Names

We are in a name debate here. We would like to hear what your thoughts on the names are:

Dan Bee is actually a Korean word that means "refreshing rain". I really like the meaning, but we sort of have a name pattern going here and thought about continuing it...for whatever reason. We have Loryn 18, Landon 14, Jamison 11, Jintry 5, and Simon 4. Do you see the pattern?

Anyway we are looking at different "S" girl names for Dan Bee. Dan Bee is going to be hard to change as that is what everyone in the whole family has been calling her...including my mother who informed me that, Dan Bee would be what she called her no matter what other name we chose! (This comes from the woman who was fairly opposed to us adopting the first time and is now all over adoption...in a positive way!!!) SO... here are a few "S" names that we came across or thought about. We also like somewhat unique names or spellings. Let me know what you think and any suggestions you have:

Sydney (I like it, but it is really popular and tons of girls have that name...negative for me) Full name originally was going to be "Sydney Rose", "Rose" after Paul's G-ma.

Samara...(Samaria is the root word so you pronounce the middle "a" the same) means "protected by God"...which I really like the meaning of since it really seems to fit her life. If we used this we might use a nick name (which I have previously been opposed to doing nicknames) Sami Bee, short for Samara Dan Bee. This is the one that Jintry and I like. (My mom might even go for this one since she mentioned Samantha Dan Bee...Sami Bee)

Skylar or maybe a variation of the spelling. It means "sky" (imagine that), but this is the one that gets the vote from Paul and Loryn. It seems to be a more popular boys name right now and not so much for girls. Then we might do Skylar Rose or Skylar Dan Bee or something. The older boys could care less. They don't even really want us to adopt again, much less pick out a name...they are being very teenagery...self centered, silly boys!!

We may just stay with Dan Bee and combine it to Danbi or Danbe with ? as the middle name or Danni Bee.

Your thoughts, ideas and suggestions would be greatly appreciated. You guys are always so full of good ideas and creative advice!! We are pathetic:))

4 comments:

Anonymous said...: I like Samara Dan Bee

Lacy Tuckness; June 2, 2008 at 9:51 PM
Anonymous said...: Excuse me for sounding a touch religious/spiritual. I really believe that when a child is adopted and is allowed in his or her new home to grow and develop and sustain a lifelong journey with The Lord I just get this sense that God is guiding the lifelong journey of the little one from a not so blessed situation to a more blessed situation. Ok a huge run on sentence but my point is I'm making a vote for Samara and putting her birth name in as her "middle name" (I guess you can say). Plus Samara is a beautiful name and ..it makes a cool nickname too "Sam".; June 2, 2008 at 11:40 PM
Mike said...: I think that whatever you name her, she is a beautiful little girl and will fit the name. Congrats!!; June 3, 2008 at 6:17 PM
Yvonne and Eric said...: I, too, like Samara Dan Bee the most. Sami Bee seems like it fits such a sweetie!

YvonneW; June 4, 2008 at 2:34 PM

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WHERE DID ALL OF THE MONEY COME FROM?

State Adoption Tax Credit = $2,825 (25% of Federal Adoption Tax Credit and used the same way)
Federal Adoption Tax Credit = $11,300 (this will be carried for up to five years and help to pay back the loans)
Total Grants = $18,000
Total Fundraisers = $2,600
Total Loans = $13,500 (Notice that the tax credits will help to pay this amount back)
Round Trip SW airline ticket donated 10-10-08
$4,000 grant matched with donations 10-5-08
$4,000 matching grant 9-23-2008
$5,000 Grant 9-18-2008
$5,000 interest free loan 8-29-2008
$5,000 Grant 7-30-2008
$1,500 (garage sale fundraiser 6-28-08) to pay for I 600 orphan petition and fingerprinting
$8,500 P&C loan 5-08
$1,100 (garage sale fundraiser 3-20-08) to help pay for adoption physicals, background checks and application fees, etc.

A little info on the Family

Paul...dad...high school counselor is his day job...He also sings with a country group, "The Boys of the Fort"...now getting national radio play time for their first single release.
Cherri...mom...full-time executive director of operations for daily life and activities of the family. Very nosy and has to know about all of their business. It's a thankless job, but somebody's got to do it. And by the way, she also operates a home daycare business with five full-time kids and two part-time kids. This is in addition to all of our children.
Loryn...oldest and first born...age 19...Attending a nearby University full-time.
Landon...age 14...He is an avid outdoorsman. Some of his passions are fishing, bow fishing, bow target practice, and going to the creek with his friends.
Jamison...third born...age 12...loves all kinds of animals (snakes and bugs are his favorite), likes to play Wii, and likes to build things. He wants to be an architectural engineer when he grows up.
Jintry...age 5...born in S. Korea...joined family June 2003...wants a sister from S. Korea! Jintry is attending all day kindergarten.
Simon...age 4...born in China...joined family June 2006...loves Thomas the Train! Simon loves to go to school on the school bus.

Adoption Timeline

Korea 2008
Adoption Timeline

Summer 2007, Jintry began talking about wanting a sister from S. Korea.

Early September 2007- I (Cherri) begin feeling my spirit wanting to search for a child. I felt that there was a child out there somewhere for us. I looked into various waiting child profiles.

9-10-07- I ask Alice at Dillon International, Inc. for new Korea passwords for the Waiting Child (WC) site.

Paul and I were not in agreement on any current waiting children that we came across.

1-15-08- New waiting girl posted on Dillon Korea site (which we did not know until 1-18-08)

1-18-08- We saw the little girl on the WC site and inquired about her information. Received her referral information and medical reports.
Dan Bee….DOB 6-27-07

1-25-08- We asked a pediatrician to review all of her medical information

1-25-08- New information about child arrives in the mail, recent update

1-29-08- Our questions submitted to Eastern Social Welfare Society in Seoul, South Korea. This is the agency that works with Dillon International, Inc. to place children.

1-30-08- Video of her arrives in the mail. It was taken of her in Korea a just ten days earlier.

2-5-08- Submitted WC application and ask for pre-approval

2-11-08- Medical questions answered from Eastern

2-11-08- Dillon ask Eastern for pre-approval, due to a few family conditions that they have to approve on a case by case basis. For example: Korea only allows adoptive families to have four children in the home prior to applying. We have five, but one of those children is 18 and will be in college this fall.

2-27-08- Pre-approved received from Eastern.

3-1-08- Application part 2 received

3-17-08- Physicals, blood work, etc for everyone…over the next week ($200+)

3-21-08- Garage Sale Fundraiser, $1,100 raised

3-26-08 State & SRS background checks submitted by mail, $120 (** 4-22-08** The state has now changed how they do this and we have to go have our fingerprints done at our local police station. Once we have the prints done, they will go to the state for cross-referencing for background checks.)

4-1-08- Reference letter request mailed (We have to have five letters of reference from people who have known us for at least three years and know us in a variety of capacities...jobs, neighbors, church, assigned guardians of the children, etc)

4-9-08- Application part 2, submitted via mail

4-14-08 Application part 2 received by Dillon International, app 2 fee $200.

4-28-08 Application part 2 formally approved

5-2-08 First payments received by Dillon for Program management fees 1&2, HS, refundable deposits

5-3-08 Schedule HS update visit

5-5-08 We have to have our state background checks re-submitted with fingerprints from the local police department. This will have to be done before the home study can be approved.

5-14-08 We have our home study update visit with our social worker.

5-28-08 We receive our home study update rough draft to proof read.

5-30-08 Dillon Int. receives a copy of our proofed home study. We hope to hear that it is formally approved by June 6, 2008.

6-12-08 Call to follow up with the state background checks.

6-16-08 Homestudy offically approved.

6-17-08 Acceptance papers sent to us overnight via FedEx.

6-18-08 We sign and get notary for all acceptance papers. Fill out and make neccessary copies of all the I-864 form that will be sent to the US Embassy in Seoul.

6-19-08 Sent acceptance papers and I-864 back to Dillon overnight

6-20-08 Dillon received all the above mentioned papers, confirmed at 1:30 pm.

6-27-08 Dan Bee turns 1 year old, we have a garage sale fundraiser.

7-1-08 We submitt our I 600 (orphan petition) and have our fingerprints done.

8-14-08 Sami receives Emmigration Permission from the Korean government.

9-2-08 Sami receives VISA approval. It is now on its way to the NVC.

9-4-08 Sami has her passport.

9-12-08 Sami's US VISA Approval is logged into the National Visa Center.

9-24-08 Sami's Visa arrives in Seoul.

10-1-08 Sami's exit visa interview in Seoul

10-2-08 Exit Visa Issued

10-7-08 Official Travel Clearance call from Dillon International

10-10-08 Forever Family Day!! Samara Dan Bee Escorted to LAX from Seoul, South Korea by Jan Dunn, Korean Case Manager for Dillon International

Paul and Cherri Korean Adoption

Monday, June 2, 2008

Names

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